Category: Memoir

THE NEIGHBORS (PART XVI – “The Thurstons”)

APRIL 23, 2024 – Next door to the Benzians lived Harlan Thurston and his wife, and next to them, Harlan’s brother, Clayton and his wife and son, Gladys and Charlie. If I was ever inside Harlan’s house, it would’ve been ever so briefly—seconds, maybe—and in the company of my mother in connection with some fund-raising …

THE NEIGHBORS (PART XVI – “The Benzians”)

APRIL 22, 2024 – In a sleek, elegant, modern, low-profile house with a well-maintained lawn that swept down to the Mississippi River lived the Benzians—Dick and Margaret and their three sons, Peter, John, and Stephen. From the street, the house was all but hidden by trees that separated the dwelling from the open half of …

THE NEIGHBORS (PART XV – “The Joslyns”)

APRIL 21, 2024 – Replacing the Tobins were the Joslyns—Warren, the dad, a realtor and jazz trombone player; Audrey, the mom, who was always well attired and perfectly even-keeled and had some part-time job outside the home, and the four boys: Mark, in Nina’s class; Dave, two years ahead of me; Jim, two years behind …

THE NEIGHBORS (PART XIV – “The Tobins”)

APRIL 20, 2024 – The next family to move into the Perkins’ old house on Rice Street were the Tobins. Mr. Tobin was a traveling salesman of whom sightings were extremely rare. He drove the family’s nice car, I remember—a late model Mercury—while his easy-going wife Mickey was stuck with an ancient green Ford. I …

THE NEIGHBORS (PART XIII – “The Perkins”)

APRIL 19, 2024 – In the enormous house on the other side of the Ridge (Roecker, Fenwick, Snyder) house first lived—during my life on Rice—the Perkins, followed by the Tobins, and the Joslyns. I spent lots of time in the house, especially under the Joslyn regime, since they had four sons, three of whom were …

THE NEIGHBORS (PART VIII – “The Fenwicks”)

APRIL 14, 2024 – After the Ridges moved to St. Cloud, their old house was occupied in succession by the Roeckers, the Fenwicks, and the Snyders. As mentioned in the Introduction to this series, The Neighbors, a while after acquiring their airplane, our friends the Roeckers moved to the other side of town. That made …

THE NEIGHBORS (PART VII – “The Ridges”)

APRIL 13, 2024 – (Cont.)The house next door to Johnsons changed hands three time from 1954, the time we moved to the neighborhood, to 1968, when I flew the coop for boarding school, later college, then the world. When we moved to Rice Street, the Ridges—Will and Ginna, Becky, Johnny and three years later, Tommy—occupied …

THE NEIGHBORS (PART VI – “The Law”)

APRIL 12, 2024 – Perhaps my own vocational destiny was inevitable, given how well the law was represented at our end of the neighborhood. There was Judge Green next door, of course, and Dad himself, who was clerk of court, but then on the opposite corner of Rice and Green from our old house was …

THE NEIGHBORS (PART II – HALLOWEEN, 365 DAYS A YEAR)

APRIL 7, 2024 – Because they were our immediate neighbors, I observed much about the Rathbuns, but based on what I later learned about them, I wish I’d inquired more when I’d had the chance. Their intense non-conformity made our family look entirely normal. A quick drive-by revealed that much about the Rathbuns was actually …

THE NEIGHBORS (Part I – “An Overhead View”)

APRIL 6, 2024 – I remember well that beautiful summer day between second and third grade—warm and filled with sunshine. Lyle Roeckers, two doors down, had recently acquired an airplane and was offering rides to our family. I say “rides,” plural, because there were more of us than there were seats in the plane, and …

THE NEIGHBORS (Introduction)

APRIL 5, 2024 – One thing that happens as you approach an age involving a zero and the first whole number following six is that you turn reflexively 180 degrees to feast on memories. This is understandable, since what await in the opposite direction are far fewer years and much lower prospects than what filled …