Category: Memoir

INHERITANCE: “Grandpa – The Truck Stops here”

JULY 11, 2023 – (Cont.) Grandpa died at 92. He’d been ailing for four years after he failed to negotiate an unusually high curb on his way to the post office on the other side of Lincoln Park in Rutherford.  He fell and struck his head on the pavement.  Grandpa fought back valiantly, but he …

INHERITANCE: “Pens . . . and the Speeches”

JULY 10, 2023 – (Cont.) Back there in the dining room as I found it in 1980, I didn’t realize the full extent of the iceberg that had upset my perception of Grandpa. After all, what did I know? I was but the inexperienced grandson with a liberal arts education from a fancy school but …

INHERITANCE: “MORE ‘PAPRWRK, PAPRWRK'”

JULY 9, 2023 – (Cont.) Not long after that, Gaga and I agreed on the next cleanup target: the dining room, which Grandpa had long ago commandeered as his evening office.  Back in those days, no one—not even UB or Mother when she visited—questioned what it was that Grandpa was doing in there every evening …

INHERITANCE (PART TWO: GAGA AND GRANDPA/Chapter 1 – “Gaga” (Section 1))

JUNE 25, 2023 – I never heard anyone call Gaga anything but “Gaga,” except for Mother, who called her “Mother.”  The name came from my oldest sister, Kristina, or “Nina,” as we called her, because Nina called herself “Nina,” since she herself couldn’t pronounce “Kristina.”  She couldn’t pronounce “grandmother” either, or any derivative thereof, so …